2020 Book Obsession
I have awakened something inside of me I had no idea when I started consuming these books that they would change me like they have, it might be the biggest influence on my life so far. Reading is not the thing I spend the majority of my time on but it's definitely the thing I extract the most value out of. With resources like my Kindle, Audible, and Thrift books anyone can find a method to learn more and do it on their terms. Although I haven't been reading my whole life I have been highly curious my whole life and spending the last few years feeing this curiosity transcends any measurable financial value. There is something about learning the complexities of the world that I believe will pay off exponentially as life goes forward, this is the reason I started and still write this book content: This website is to help people make good investments in themselves, and I believe people are missing out on the highest return on investment possible by not reading difficult books. The books on my list this year are the dense, complicated, and the most challenging I've ever undertaken, making me feel very competitive and intellectually confident, I write this not as a brag but as a means to encourage everyone to do the same. 2018 book list 2019 book list
My favorites of the year
Infinite Jest, David Foster Wallace I don't read much fiction, but this one touched my soul. This book is largely about addiction, and a genre of our culture called "Post modernism", which is something our society is currently going through. The premise of post modernism is that there is no over-arching truth in the world, so anyone can make up truth. This slides into dangerous territory in the form of excessive irony, when people use language to say whatever they feel like and they call it their truth and if it's simply not true, then they can shrug their words off as "I'm just joking" or the like. As someone who has battled with a highly addictive personality my whole life I really connected to this book. This quote really hit me
“What fire dies when you feed it?” In the book this quote was in reference to fame, but can be applied to almost anything we chase. If you have a burning desire for some way of life, adding to the fire rarely will quench your thirst and will generally add to it. Similar to telling an alcoholic that there is nothing at the bottom of the bottle. We have to make peace with what we have.
Another quote that will sit with me for the rest of my life:
"Attachments are of great seriousness. Choose your attachments carefully. Choose your temple of fanaticism with great care. What you wish to sing of as tragic love is an attachment not carefully chosen. Die for one person? This is a craziness. Persons change, leave, die, become ill. They leave, lie, go mad, have sickness, betray you, die. Your nation outlives you. A cause outlives you." This hit me like a ton of bricks. The quote is in relation to finding higher meaning, which is reference to the post modernist movement I spoke about above. With no agreed upon truth or values we have no agreed foundational value system to bind us together in common, we have nothing that is bigger than us to lead as a guiding force. This is what religion is supposed to do, act as an over arching value system to ground us when we are lost. When we have no values or our values are fickle, we are likely to chase fleeting impulses or the popular thing of the day. In America today we suffer from this deeply which is the exact purpose of this book: to predict the future postmodern decline of American culture, and now we find people attaching themselves to whatever passing culture war the news brings or the latest wannabe dictator. Attachments that come and go with one person, or in a fleeting timeline are extremely dangerous, and this idea has motivated me to write out my own values in life, to think about them carefully, and to make something that is bigger than me.....I haven't completed this year, but it's something I'm working on. In the meantime, I am choosing my attachments with great care. Some other quotes I liked that reference our self centeredness and consumerist culture.
“You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.”
“It did what all ads are supposed to do: create an anxiety relievable by purchase.”
The Blank Slate, Steven Pinker This was an incredible book about human biology and social behavior and how it related to our political discourse. I read Pinker's newer release "Enlightenment Now" about a year ago and was fairly unimpressed, this one is much better. The book tackles the idea in it's simplicity of the "nurture versus nature" argument. Humans are a mix of both nature and nurture, and "The Blank Slate" tackles the endless nuance about how this manifests in our actual lives compared to science behind it, it also includes all the political arguments that arise along the way and often get attached to extremes. I love politics but I hate over-simplified discussions, if you feel the same this book is definitely for you. It covers all the controversial topics and does so with objectivity and relatability. The Blank Slate tackles the very difficult and often uncomfortable idea that humans are not equal in all ways, but still have relative strengths and weaknesses.
“Equality is not the empirical claim that all groups of humans are interchangeable; it is the moral principle that individuals should not be judged or constrained by the average properties of their group.”
The Age of Surveillance Capitalism, Shoshana Zuboff Probably one of the most important books of the decade. Far too difficult for me to summarize but definitely one I want to advocate for as it applies to everyone. It takes the idea that social media companies are using our data against us, which we all know, but it's way way scarier and way deeper integrated in our culture than I had ever realized. To give a glimpse, instead of just collecting data that you give these companies they are actually measuring your behavior (how often you post, how much you share, how erratic your behavior is, and how it conforms to known personality types) then it takes your personality data and makes a prediction about how you will act under certain circumstances, for example showing you an ad for wine when they know you're in a sad mood and seeing if you'll buy. If you do, they have not only predicted your actions, but created them. Social media is creating our behavior to fit their needs and worse, there is zero accountability or protection for us. There is a documentary on Netflix called "The Social Dilemma" which covers a portion of what this book is about and features the author of this book and another cultural critique book called The Coddling of the American Mind which I previously wrote a review about.
I'm proud of this years additions